I blogged recently about how M tried snails, and just about everything else on the trip (she didn’t like them much, and a few things got spit into a napkin, but she enjoyed herself at the table…)
Well, at camp, the counselor came up to me and RAVED about how “BRAVE!” M was to have tried snails. How they were all “so impressed!”
Stop it! I wanted to yell… “Of course she tried snails, and nutella and lots of other delicious things!” I replied, smiling…
What does it do to a child’s natural curiosity, her natural drive and ability to try and learn new foods when adults praise
Will she be as likely to try snails or a new food again, or did that praise feel like pressure? Did that word “brave” imply that there was something unusual about trying snails, or something scary about snails or new foods?
What do you think?